https://s971.photobucket.com/albums/ae200/waldenpond09/?newest=1
this is a pic of an Amish Barn Raising, known as a Frolic. They let me take this from the road. DH and Son have helped with a few, and were blessed to then sit down at the table with all the menfolk and eat a meal. The prayer last 15 minutes, then mountainous plates of food went 'round, and after the dessert, big bowls of jumbo size candy bars made their way. DH said he never felt so closer to God.
waldenpond check the other post you had at
http://countryplans.com/smf/index.php?topic=7594.msg97752#msg97752